Do Not Be Anxious

There's a part of me that loves my comfort zone.  Any comfort zone.  I like to know what I'm doing, how I'm going to do it, where the ability and resources are going to come from.  I like to know what's expected of me, what I can expect from others, and what consequences will surface if those expectations aren't met.

I also love to live.  Not just exist but truly live.  There's something about rock climbing, sky diving, first dates, or other near death experiences that cause a certain feeling.  It's scary, but in a good way.  We avoid life at times.  The uncertainties just aren't worth the risk.  What if I fall, what if I hit the ground, what if I look stupid, what if I'm not happy, what if I lose all I've worked for????

Is that why we love movies so much?  The chance to participate in epic battles without the risk of getting shot at, speared, or mutilated.  The warm fuzzies of a romantic comedy without having to put our own heart on the line.  The intensity of a poker player going all-in with their life savings, while the only bet we made was that the $4.50 we paid at Hollywood video wouldn't be wasted on a lame movie.

Most things worth living for involve a level of risk.  Marriage is great, but what if it ends in divorce?  Having children is one of the best things ever, but what if they stray from the path and break our hearts?  Whether making a discovery, mastering an instrument, or earning a degree, a level of risk and sacrifice is inevitably involved.

"The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full." (John 10:10)  That they may have life to the full.  What an invitation!  But what does it cost?  What is the risk involved in entering into life where the God of the universe is our Father, His Son is our Saviour, and the Holy Spirit is our guide?  To me the answer is both nothing and everything.  "And everyone who has left houses or brothers or sisters or father or mother or children or fields for my sake will receive a hundred times as much and will inherit eternal life.  (Matt. 19:29)  It's like Jesus is saying that everyone who risks everything that matters, to pursue the only thing that matters, will gain the only thing that matters.


So, we risk it all.  Because we trust what Jesus says.  And then we are anxious.  We don't need to be anxious.  Why are we anxious?  So quickly we take our eyes off Jesus.  But we are left with this command.  "Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.  And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." (Phil 4:6-7)  How well God knows us to predict our anxiety.  How good He is to offer peace.


Mike

The Day's Get A Sink!!!

Check it!!!

A new apartment (dorm room) with a sink just became available!!!

Kristi and I realized how blessed we are to have 3 sinks and 2 bathrooms in our current home when we first heard the news that our apartment we were supposed to move into at NTBI had neither.  I wondered about the water situation around the world, and with a little research learned that about 1 billion people in the world don't have access to safe drinking water.  The definition "no access" doesn't mean they don't have running water, or that they have to walk for clean water.  It means no access to clean water.  This reminds me of the Essentials project Pastor Scott and Pastor Kurt launched at my home church (High Desert Church) in 2008.  The Lord challenged many hearts, and we raised $180,000 dollars to help build clean wells in Malawi, Africa.  How rewarding it was to "exchange our wants for their needs".

We are so happy that an apartment with a kitchen sink opened up, but the reality is that we would be so blessed just to have access to running water in the same building.  Our new option with the fancy sink isn't a done deal, but we were told that this would be our apartment unless a change becomes necessary.  It's about the same size (600 sqft) as the other apartment, but we HAVE A SINK and the floor-plan is a little more open and usable.

We are blessed,

Mike

Downsizing

Mike here.  This is Kristi with some of our mugs and dishes we aren't keeping.  We've been throwing numbers around our heads trying to guess how much we'll have to downsize.  I finally figured it out today.  Counting the garage, we have a total of 2,170 sqft of living/storage space in our house right now.  Being that we are moving into an apartment with just under 600 sqft, we'll be cutting our space by about 72%.  It feels good to know this number.  Now I know that out of every 100 items we'll be able to keep 28.  This includes money, we just don't have room for it all, so we'll only be able to keep 28 out of every hundred dollars!!!  Kidding aside, I know it won't work out this cut and dry, but i still find comfort in knowing this figure.

Our 4th bedroom (we call it the den) is our catch-all.  It's supposed to be organized by wall: the window wall "is" things we are taking, the right wall "is" things to go through, the left wall "is" things we need to offload, and the back wall "is" things we are storing over the years.  Instead, every wall looks like it's been hit by Hurricane Kristi!!!

Since our bathroom is going to be outside our apartment across the hall, we thought we'd use this dresser as our medicine cabinet, hair-drying station (for Kristi only), and mouthwash/spit in the trash can location.  Think of it as a bathroom sink and mirror without the sink!  We worked on this on Monday just so we can get used to it, find the problems, and solve them before we get there.

We are planning to have a garage sale soon.  Here's a preview of a very few of the many items available.  We'll be selling furniture, electronics, toys, clothes, kitchenware, and possibly a house and a cat...maybe we won't actually sell the house and cat at the garage sale, but we probably are looking for a buyer or renter.

Well that's it for today.  We appreciate all your prayers.

Mike

Our Tiny Apartment @ NTBI

Kristi~Join me as we take a short tour through our prospective apartment at NTBI!

Our apartment is kind of like a shoebox… there is no hall, just doorways through rooms that lead to other rooms. It goes like this, the living room leads to our room, our room leads to the kid's room, and their room leads to the kitchen/dining area.  It'll be like Tetris trying to fit our family of 4 into 600 sq ft!

Here we have our kitchen...small and quaint.  You may notice something missing, yes, the kitchen has everything BUT the kitchen sink! No worries… The Day family has skills that you’ve never seen before.  We can ADAPT! There is a community sink right across the hall from our apartment, as well as a shower room (single occupancy only…) and a restroom. We look forward to spending time together here in our kitchen enjoying cozy meals together.

Next, we have two little bedrooms. Our room will be mostly bed, although we figured we can fit our dressers from home too. My dresser has a big mirror so that will be our “getting ready in the morning” spot. The kids will be getting bunk beds, and we are still in the process of figuring out creative storage for toys.

Here's two views of our living room… Now we can stretch out a bit. This area will hold our bookshelf, couch, ottoman, rocking chair, end tables with lamps, TV, and computer desk.  Many an hour will be spent studying here, and hopefully we'll enjoy a few family movie nights as well!

This amazing shot was taken from the living room window.  What the apartment lacks in space we make up for with a great view.  The city of Waukesha is beautiful, with 100 year old buildings and churches scattered among 1950's era cottage style homes.  There's lots of grass and beautiful trees that are already turning every shade of Autumn.  I suppose lots of cities have green grass and trees, but after living in the desert for 9 years, the foliage was a refreshing sight.

Well, there you have it, short and sweet!  We know there will be an adjustment to living here, but we are also so excited to be where God wants us for now.  We have a place to call 'home' and we will be together.  We are so blessed.

~Kristi

Visiting NTBI in Waukesha WI

Kristi and I got about 3 hours sleep before waking up at 4:00am and getting on the road for our drive to LAX. Our flight was fine, though not too exciting, but that’s just because I’m apparently unimpressed by the miracle of human flight. A comedian I like says that every time we are on a plane we should grip the armrests the whole time and yell “Oh my gosh! I'm flying through the air...in a chair...in the sky?!?"

The 10-acre Waukesha campus is located in the western suburbs of Milwaukee, Wisconsin. The city of Waukesha has a population of about 65,000. The main campus houses the faculty offices, most of the classrooms, library, a dining hall that seats 170, student dorms, three student lounges, laundry facilities and a bookstore. The campus complex includes additional housing for married students and their children, a 300-seat auditorium, gymnasium, garages and physical plant shops, and playground for the children.                          

This is the classroom Kristi and I will be in most of the time our first semester. The freshman class in January is always smaller than in the fall semester. We will be a class of about 30 students. Many students and teachers say they prefer the small classes because of the closeness and one on one time students get with the instructors and fellow students.

We are looking forward to the blessing of attending chapel every day. We got to attend a special worship chapel that student bands lead once a week. I hope to join the bands on drums and guitar. Normally speakers from the faculty, local churches, and missionaries from around the world come to share with the students during chapel time.

This is another beautiful shot of the campus.  We had a great time, met a lot of great folks, and got a good idea of what to expect in January.    We hear that when we arrive all the grass and leaves will be long-gone, and the landscape will be replaced with an ice-cold wonderland.  We'll have to buy some warm cloths and a few beanies to keep my bald head warm.

Till next time...Mike

Q&A about our journey

How are we doing globally on the great commission? A research initiative called www.joshuaproject.net is seeking to bring definition to the unfinished task of the Great Commission. Their research shows that globally there are 6,631 people groups considered least-reached. The term "least-reached" is defined by things like how much of the Bible has been translated, what's the percentage of believers, is there an established church. The research through New Tribes shows there are about 2,500 unengaged people groups. Unengaged means there is no Bible translation in progress, no believers within the linguistic group, and no missionaries working among them to change that.

Is it even our job to reach the whole world with the Gospel? “And this gospel of the kingdom will be preached in the whole world as a testimony to all nations, and then the end will come.”(Matt. 24:14) "And they sang a new song: "You are worthy to take the scroll and open it's seals, because you were slain, and with your blood you purchased men for God from every tribe and language and people and nation. (Rev. 5:9)

There are so many needs here, why not stay and serve the Lord here in the States? We are learning that the work force is out of balance. Globally about 1% of Christian resources go toward ministries focused on bringing the gospel to un-reached people groups, 9% goes to reached people groups outside the US, and 90% funds ministries for English speaking people.

What about your children and their future? We love our kids! We want them to be safe and healthy. We want them to get a good education. We want them to fall in love with Jesus and grow up to be dedicated followers of Christ. We will do our best to love, nurture, and provide for them wherever we live. The reality is, there are dangers, trials, and temptations everywhere. We must all trust God every day to give us the strength to endure whatever may come our way.

What about leaving family and friends? This will be the hardest part. In the New Testament Peter says to Jesus “We have left everything to follow you!” “I tell you the truth,” Jesus said to them, “no one who has left home or wife or brothers or parents or children for the sake of the kingdom of God will fail to receive many times as much in this age and, in the age to come, eternal life.” (Luke 18:29-30) The point for us is not that we hope to receive material rewards from following Christ. We believe that walking with God and knowing Him more is the reward.

Should every Christian serve in cross cultural missions? We don’t think so, but many should. We believe that God has given every believer different gifts, abilities, and desires to be used in various ways. “For we are God’s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do. (Eph. 2:10) We are considering cross-cultural ministry because our desires have changed as we became aware of the needs in the world around us.

How do you know God wants you to go to a foreign mission field? We are not sure yet. So many things have happened that lead up to this point. We’re just taking it one step at a time. We don’t know exactly where God will lead us, but we want to be part of declaring His glory among the nations. There are ministry role's here in the states, overseas at headquarter bases, and right in isolated tribes that all work together to make tribal church planting happen. We would like to be involved in one of those capacities

What will you do differently if God doesn't lead you to the foreign mission field? We are seeing more and more that geography shouldn't change our philanthropy. John Piper, in his book Let The Nations Be Glad says “For us to be loving we must exalt God, and for God to be loving He must exalt God. Love is helping people toward God. We do this by pointing people to the greatness of God.” We believe that up to this point our preoccupation with comfort, ease, affluence, prosperity, and assumed safety have produced weakness, apathy, and self-centeredness that hinders our ability to truly help others toward God. We want that to change wherever we live and work.

1st Missions letter in April '09

Dear family and friends,

For the past several months we have been going through a time of growth as we search the scriptures, pray, read Christian books, listen to sermon podcasts, and talk with pastors and friends about what God may have in store for us. This lead to us starting the application process for New Tribes Mission (NTM), a ministry dedicated to reaching remote and unreached people groups. For more information: www.ntm.org

If accepted, and as God leads, Kristi and I will go through a four-year training process. During the first 2 years we will work on an Associate Degree in Biblical Studies through New Tribes Bible Institute (NTBI), and in the second 2 years we will earn a Bachelors Degree in Intercultural Ministry at the Missionary Training Center (MTC). This training will equip us to be part of a team that is prepared to meet the challenges in planting churches among unreached tribal people in remote locations.

This has been a very difficult road for us so far. We know the implications are far reaching. That’s why we are telling those closest to us about our developing plans so that you can pray and process with us. If God continues to lead us in this way, we will not be the only ones sacrificing. The reality of distance and time will require some of you to go through a process of letting us go.

Please pray for us as we seek the Lord in this. Pray that our desires would line up with His, and that we will accurately discern His leading. Even in the midst of this time of growth we are so full of faults. We underestimate God, we are fearful when we should be courageous, we are impatient when we should be trusting, and we are sinful when we should be holy. Thank God for His mercy and grace through Christ Jesus!

With love,

Mike and Kristi Day